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On the Other Side of the Fire

from Pz's Perspective, Natural Muscle Magazine

5. The magic lives on

Only a short time has passed since Imago burned. I have quiet moments when I reflect on the senselessness of it all but mostly on the magic I felt was to come. I realize the magic can't end here. There is reason now more than ever to carry on with what I started. My message is one of empowerment and inspiration. The only way I can succeed at helping others is to walk the walk with a sincere heart. That path is sometimes narrow and usually rough because it is the road less traveled. This fire is nothing more than an obstacle along the way. It wasn't directed at me personally, but it effected me personally. While I wish that it never happened, it did. That door is closed, but I'm still here. In the meantime, other doors have opened—doors that would not have shown themselves if not for the fire. Part of what will happen in the future depends on me. If I continue to have faith and determination—like the little engine that could—nothing—not even a blazing fire—can stop the message from rolling on down the track. If something in your life has got you down or broken your spirit and you've lost the magic, it's time to snap out of it. Decide you're not going to let your magic slip away. Magic makes the world go 'round. Don't let anything or anyone rob you of the wonder that is yours to experience and share with others.

6. What about the fires in your life?

The reason I share this fire and my loss with you is to let you know when adversity comes knocking—no matter the shape or form—you can survive. When tragedy comes—-regardless how great— your setbacks will only be temporary. Not only can you survive, but if you so choose, you can even thrive. Don't let the arsonists win. Don't let the bullies win. Don't let the failures stand. Don't let the setbacks keep you back. Coming out on the other side of the fire you'll have a choice. You will let it beat you down and consume you to the point that you'll lose your focus and never fulfill your destiny, or you will find yourself ready and undaunted to tackle all life has to bring from here forward.